True, Kind, and Necessary

I have a mouth on me. I use it a lot. Not as much as I used to, and, I think, more effectively than I used to, but it is still quite a mouth. I like the sound of my voice. I like saying things people listen to, I like making people laugh. I like making myself laugh if...

Why I Do Not Take Insurance

I have a sliding scale with a broad range that I hope most people are able to afford. I do this because I do not accept insurance, and I am increasingly unlikely to ever do so. This isn’t a decision born of laziness or a desire to limit my clientele to people who can...

Hiding Behind Perfectionism

I’ve been told I’m a perfectionist, but I’m probably just a coward. It’s a lot easier to say that I didn’t publish a blog or give a talk or record a podcast because I couldn’t get it to be the way I wanted it to be, rather than admitting that I wanted to avoid the...

Looking Forward

37 has been one of best years of my life. It may have even been the best year of my life. I sit here on my 38th birthday as a pretty happy guy. I have found more love, more peace, more contentment and more autonomy in my life every year for the last decade. The thing...